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Thanks to ChnLove, I have found my true love

I will start with a short cover letter.We will not be able to send you photos until we return to Chengdu.Please edit this missive as you see fit. I will also leave a contact E-mail for others who do not believe what I have to say.

During March of 2011 I was surfing the net when I kept getting this very annoying pop-up that offered “Chinese Women and Asian Women” who were looking for “Western Men” for marriage. I had to be skeptical about a Chinese Lady wanting to be with a Western Man because all of my life the very few Chinese people I have known frowned on a marriage between a person of European decent and a person of Chinese decent, so I had always found it to be impossible to approach a Chinese Lady for a date.

Anyway, back to the annoying pop-ups I kept getting. After about 2 weeks of these pop-ups I decided that I would take a look at this web site. When I opened the web site I really became skeptical thinking this was another slant on the Nigerian Scam that anyone who has ever clicked on a dating web site is familiar with. The women’s photos and their profiles were like nothing I had ever seen before. Here were some of the most beautiful women that I had ever laid eyes on with profiles that left me flabbergasted.

I looked the web site over for a week or two before I received a message from a woman who claimed to be 59 years old. I thought to myself that here is where the scam starts because this woman could not be 59, she looked to be in her 30s. being the person I am, I think a woman much older or much younger to be out of the question. I had to ask myself “what would a girl of 30 or even 40 years of age have in common with an “Old Geezer” in his 60s?” I could hardly believe that a beautiful woman 59 years of age, who looked to be in her 30s was interested in me. I really enjoyed reading her note to me. I must have read the note 20 times before I decided to send a reply. I figured, “what the heck! For less than the price of a 6 pack of beer I can send her a letter and receive a reply. The letters went back and forth on a regular basis for a short time before we got down to the “Nitty Gritty” of the reason we were sending all this correspondence back and forth for. It was when in one of her letters she stated “no games” when I realized the lady was for real.

Our letters continued back and forth for another short period of time and then she asked me if the relationship we were building worked out would I accept her. My immediate response was yes, yes, yes. I couldn’t think of anything else to say, I was left speechless. Would I accept her? I would have to dig out all the old letters to find out exactly what I had to say but as I remember the question shouldn’t be if I would accept her but would she accept me.

We went along with the letters for a while before we decided to have a “Love Call.” I have a hearing problem so I couldn’t hear everything that was being said. Actually I couldn’t hear much of any spoken words but I did get the idea. Because I couldn’t hear everything I figured that this was too difficult for me and would be very good for someone with good hearing.

Our letters kept going back and forth until we had a misunderstanding of what was being said to each other. Because Chinese grammar is different from English grammar I had the wrong impression that my perfect lady was telling me that she didn’t want me. To talk about having the wind taken out of your sails, my sails flopped right to the deck. I thought I would give it a try by calling her on the phone. When we spoke she told me that all the things I had said to her were nothing more than lies. I was in tears that would cause the second flood of Noah. When we both realized that we had misunderstood each other I was so relieved that I fell to my knees to pray when all of sudden my dog Lucy came to me and licked me on the face. I guess that is exactly what I needed.

Time went on and we decided it was time we met in person. I purchased round trip air fare to China but this was not to be. I am a diabetic and developed an ulcer on the bottom of my foot that became gangrene. That was only the start. I started going to a wound clinic where the ulcer was improving to the point that I could travel to China. Three days before I was to fly to China I found out that infection had settled into the bone in my foot. After 3 weeks in a hospital my foot recovered enough to be discharged but not enough to make a trip to China.

We continued to correspond on a regular basis until my lady told me she was getting a little depressed. I didn’t want to chance losing someone who had become very precious to me so I rebooked my flight to China, the rest of the story is still in the writing but I offered a Diamond Ring which was accepted.

After she accepted the ring we spent the next 4 weeks sightseeing. I can’t remember having been so fortunate as to have found my future wife. I have already filled out a form 129f petition for my lady to apply for her K-1 fiancée visa. She wishes to marry in the USA. Anything that my lady wishes and I am able to provide her I certainly will. During the last 4 weeks I have never been treated better by anyone as the way my lady treats me. I would bet my farm that the treatment I have received from my lady will only get better as time passes.I now find it embarrassing to have thought this web site was some of a scam, like the Nigerian Scams.

We are as grateful as any man and woman can be to the staff at the Chinese Agency. I am 63 years and feel like a teenager in love for the first time. We made a visit to the Agency and personally thanked many of the staffs who work at the agency to bring the two of us together. We haven’t finalized our plans yet but I have not a doubt in my head that we will be very happy with each other for many years to come.
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    Most of us are nervous about the first date. Just imagine, is there a time more apprehensive than waiting your girl to arrive in the bar? The answer should be definitely 'NO'! At this very moment, your mind is racing. You repeatedly ask yourself all these questions: "What should I say to her when she arrives?"; "Should I give her a kiss or a hug?". My personal solution is to get well-prepared. Have a greeting in mind and a first topic of conversation. Whatever topic you choose to start the talk, make sure to let it spoken out in a natural and relaxing atmosphere.

    2) Choose the right Venue for your first date.

    Choosing the right place to have your first date would drastically shape the tone of your evening. To make a right decision, you need to consider both parties. I suggest letting your lady choose it first by listing a few different places. Even though the profile picture of your lady comes with a drink, it doesn't mean that she wants to get hammered. While once you confirmed she is a girl who gets used to bar and night club via the conversation, then a bar or a club is your first consideration.

    3) Be yourself!

    Choosing the right place to have your first date would drastically shape the tone of your evening. To make a right decision, you need to consider both parties. I suggest letting your lady choose it first by listing a few different places. Even though the profile picture of your lady comes with a drink, it doesn't mean that she wants to get hammered. While once you confirmed she is a girl who gets used to bar and night club via the conversation, then a bar or a club is your first consideration.

    3) Be yourself!

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    First date is always a worry for boys, girls, men and women since it directly decides the success of a romantic relationship, and we always take it seriously. So how to assure you don't make any social faux pas of the first date? Actually, we can drastically reduce the chance of messing up on the first date as only as you obey the simple rules below.

    1) Get well-prepared!

    Most of us are nervous about the first date. Just imagine, is there a time more apprehensive than waiting your girl to arrive in the bar? The answer should be definitely 'NO'! At this very moment, your mind is racing. You repeatedly ask yourself all these questions: "What should I say to her when she arrives?"; "Should I give her a kiss or a hug?". My personal solution is to get well-prepared. Have a greeting in mind and a first topic of conversation. Whatever topic you choose to start the talk, make sure to let it spoken out in a natural and relaxing atmosphere.

    2) Choose the right Venue for your first date.