Thank You Letters
Thank you for helping me find an excellent Chinese wife.
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I want to express my thankfulness to the agency and the translator who helped me find my husband. I am very happy now. Thanks so much!
- Member ID: CM1352745, Washington, United States
- Profile ID: P509761, Wuhan, China
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In January, 2011, Ms. Zhang, with the help of a translator, wrote an Admirer Mail to Dr. Robin from Washington, USA. Robin sincerely replied with his detailed personal description in the same day. He honestly told her that he had previously been married for 3 times. The first time was when he was still studying at Oxford University, he was still young and too inexperienced to know about love. In addition, his first wife was totally wrapped up in her math research, totally ignoring their relationship. So he felt that his first wife was really married to math, not married to him. His second marriage lasted for 26 years and they had 2 children together, one boy and one girl. Both are grown up already. His third wife was a Chinese lady and they met in the US. Their marriage lasted for 4 years. Because his divorce with his second wife left him with no house and little savings, and according to the US law when you get divorced you should pay your wife alimony support, so his divorce agreement made him pay US$ 1,000 every month to his second wife. His third wife was not happy with this, so they got divorced.
Even though he had been very badly hurt in the field of love and marriage, he still believed in love and longed for marriage. Robin had always been intrigued by Chinese culture and history, and by chance he found ChnLove and registered on the site. He found many beautiful Chinese ladies there, so he decided to get married again to a Chinese lady. Robin was very frank with Ms. Zhang about his financial situation, even though he didn't have a house. His honesty and candidness made Ms. Zhang feel that he was a very down-to-earth and stable person. Robin also told her that he was currently corresponding with one other lady on the site. In addition, Robin is a very impressive character, he was born in England, and has US and British dual citizenship. He graduated from Oxford University and without getting a masters degree went directly to Harvard to study and got a PhD in math. He taught in college in Ohio for over 20 years. Now he has started working for Microsoft for 4 years as an engineer of software development and design. From the time he decided to find a Chinese wife, Robin started studying Chinese very diligently, and when he came to meet Ms. Zhang in person, he brought with him a very thick Chinese dictionary.
On March 1, 2011, Robin wrote a letter to Ms. Zhang to tell her that he had decided to marry the other Chinese lady. In her reply to him, she sincerely wished Robin the best of luck and happiness, even though she hurt. But she still wanted to give him her best wishes and also told him if things didn't work out with the lady, and she was still single, then her door would still be opened for him. Perhaps it really touched Robin for the depth and wisdom of her heart.
On April 1 2011, is also Ms. Zhang's birthday, Robin sent her a big bunch of red roses, wishing her happy birthday. She was so surprised that he still remembered her birthday. Robin told Ms. Zhang that the other lady's father did not approved their relationship. From April 1 2011, Ms. Zhang and Robin rebuilt a very stable mail correspondence relationship. They had their first Love Call on May 5 which lasted for over half an hour. On the line, Ms. Zhang didn't know what to say, the translator helped create a happy and relaxing atmosphere. After hearing each other's voices for the first time, their relationship really started to heat up. The next 3 months, they did video chat 4 times. Through each time, their mutual feelings were strengthened a lot. They talked about their wedding plans and details. Robin would wear traditional Chinese style wedding clothes, and Ms. Zhang would wear a Qipao dress. Robin was really looking forward to the upcoming wedding and in each of his letters to Ms. Zhang he expressed his deep love and told her how much he missed her.
Robin arrived as planned in the evening of September 4, 2011. Ms. Zhang had prepared a bunch of red roses specially for him and they looked quite fresh and beautiful, just like her passion for him. When they met at the airport, they hugged tightly and kissed. This was their first face to face meeting, but it seemed like they had been together for a long time already. After going back to the hotel, Ms. Zhang presented him with gifts for him and his daughter and Robin was very touched. He excitedly handed his single certification document to the translator and be told that it needed to be translated into Chinese. Robin immediately answered that they would go the next morning to deal with it. His over excitement and eagerness was both a bit funny and touching.
On September 6, the third day after their meeting, they went to pick out wedding rings in the morning. Robin picked one out for Ms. Zhang. Then in the afternoon, they went to get their marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau. Robin was just like a happy boy, carefully and patiently filling out each and every form for the marriage registration. After they got the marriage certificate, they hugged tightly. Robin said jokingly that now they were a married couple protected by the law, and also that Chnlove had another successful story to talk about. In the elevator on the way back, they hugged again and kissed. Having found happiness together, Robin and Mrs. Zhang came back to the agency office to write a thank you note for all the work the agency did for them. We are all happy for them and wish them the best!
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Company: Wuhan Hong Jin Translation and Consultation Service Centre
Since: Apr-10-12 in WuHan, HuBei, China - See detailed feed back profile
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Choosing the right place to have your first date would drastically shape the tone of your evening. To make a right decision, you need to consider both parties. I suggest letting your lady choose it first by listing a few different places. Even though the profile picture of your lady comes with a drink, it doesn't mean that she wants to get hammered. While once you confirmed she is a girl who gets used to bar and night club via the conversation, then a bar or a club is your first consideration.
3) Be yourself!
First date is always a worry for boys, girls, men and women since it directly decides the success of a romantic relationship, and we always take it seriously. So how to assure you don't make any social faux pas of the first date? Actually, we can drastically reduce the chance of messing up on the first date as only as you obey the simple rules below.
1) Get well-prepared!
Most of us are nervous about the first date. Just imagine, is there a time more apprehensive than waiting your girl to arrive in the bar? The answer should be definitely 'NO'! At this very moment, your mind is racing. You repeatedly ask yourself all these questions: "What should I say to her when she arrives?"; "Should I give her a kiss or a hug?". My personal solution is to get well-prepared. Have a greeting in mind and a first topic of conversation. Whatever topic you choose to start the talk, make sure to let it spoken out in a natural and relaxing atmosphere.
2) Choose the right Venue for your first date.
