Married Couples

Since: Apr 02,2013Love means compromise and understanding
Matrimony ID: SS3114
Source: Asiame.com
Category: Singles with children
Bride: Meihua Wang
P5081847
China
Groom: Ray Bartie
CM62990608
bundaberg, Australia

First Contact: Feb 17,2012
Date Married: May 22,2012

Services Used:
EMF Mail
Agency:
Shenzhen Oriental Love Consulting Co. Ltd. (ID: P508)
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On February 17, 2011, Ray received his first reply from Meihua. They continued to exchange a total of 56 letters through the ChnLove system. He finally flew to China for the first time to visit his lady on May 18, 2012. During his visit, they had a wonderful time and got along very well. Meihua even took him to visit her parents and family who were also quite pleased with Ray as a fine gentleman. They had an engagement party on May 23 in Wuhan, and Ray promised to help Meihua apply for her marriage visa as soon as he returned home.

During their time together in China, the agency translator was pleased to assist with communication. On the very first day, the lady and gentleman, along with the lady's older sister and the translator were seated together in the reception of the agency, talking about the gentleman's family background as well as some other topics. Ray had a great impression of Meihua and volunteered that he would be quite keen on marriage. He wanted to buy a wedding ring the next day.

In the afternoon, they went for a stroll around the East Lake, but later the lady had some urgent business and had to make an unexpected trip to Beijing. After discussing the situation, Ray agreed to accompany her to Beijing. Meihua, together with Ray and her older sister booked the tickets to go to Beijing on May 19 and return to Wuhan on May 21. Ray planned to invite the lady's family for a dinner banquet after returning from Beijing and present Meihua with an engagement ring to formalize their engagement.

After returning to Wuhan, Ray got in touch with the agency translator on May 22 to talk about some difficulties that he and Meihua had encountered during their trip to Beijing. The gentleman had gone with the lady to pick out an engagement ring. The lady had chosen a ring that was a bit expensive. He suggested that he could note down the size and style of the ring, and then purchased a similar one after returning to Australia. Unfortunately, the lady interpreted this to mean that he did not want to buy the ring for her and she was quite angry. The ring was not purchased, all the money brought with them to Beijing was spent, and the relationship was feeling some friction.

Ray told the translator that his original intention of coming to China was to get engaged with the lady, and this had not changed. After they sharing their thoughts more fully, everyone was able to reach an agreement. They decided to buy a cheaper engagement ring right away. And Ray would buy a more formal wedding ring when he returned to Australia. Afterwards, they went to the jewelry store and the lady picked out a ring which the gentleman agreed to buy. During dinner that night, he suggested that they visit the lady's parents and son the next day as well, and formally get engaged in front of everyone. The lady happily agreed.

On May 23, in the hotel, the couple held an engagement party and everyone was extremely happy. Among the guests were many of the lady's friends, including one who was also a member of the site registered to the same dating agency!

Even though their road was rocky at times, it ended in a great success, thanks to love! Love means compromise and understanding, and the gentleman was very accommodating to the lady. After he returned to his home country, he began with the paperwork for her marriage visa immediately. The gentleman came to China again in November to held a formal wedding ceremony with the lady. And he stayed here for nearly a month to wait for visa, so that they could all return to Australia together.

In the end, the visa was approved and the lady and her son went to Australia with Ray. They have gotten their official marriage certificate and are currently living happily together.

    They had an engagent party to celebrate their wedding

    The lady and the man met each other on May 18th 2012. The lady showed the man to her family. They liked the man, and they also hoped that the lady and the man can be together. They had an engagent party to celebrate their wedding in Wuhan. Now the man is applying for a Fiancee Visa for the lady.

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    Agency Member:
    Company: Wuhan Hong Jin Translation and Consultation Service Centre
    Since: Apr-10-12 in WuHan, HuBei, China
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    First date is always a worry for boys, girls, men and women since it directly decides the success of a romantic relationship, and we always take it seriously. So how to assure you don't make any social faux pas of the first date? Actually, we can drastically reduce the chance of messing up on the first date as only as you obey the simple rules below.

    1) Get well-prepared!

    Most of us are nervous about the first date. Just imagine, is there a time more apprehensive than waiting your girl to arrive in the bar? The answer should be definitely 'NO'! At this very moment, your mind is racing. You repeatedly ask yourself all these questions: "What should I say to her when she arrives?"; "Should I give her a kiss or a hug?". My personal solution is to get well-prepared. Have a greeting in mind and a first topic of conversation. Whatever topic you choose to start the talk, make sure to let it spoken out in a natural and relaxing atmosphere.

    2) Choose the right Venue for your first date.