Married Couples

Since: Apr 02,2013Perseverance is victory
Matrimony ID: SS3105
Source: Asiame.com
Category: Remarried
Bride: Xiaomei Huang
P250668
China
Groom: victor stover
CM835155
hummelstown, United States

First Contact: Apr 22,2011
Date Married: Jul 24,2012

Services Used:
EMF Mail
Agency:
Shenzhen Oriental Love Consulting Co. Ltd. (ID: P508)
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On April 22, 2011, Victor wrote his first letter to Xiaomei. His letter was quite sincere and expressed his deep desire to find a soul mate and life partner. However, after reading his profile, Xiaomei was not particularly interested. Initially, she turned him down as she felt that he was overweight and therefore perhaps prone to illnesses. And she was not happy with his looks. His profile photo was indeed very badly taken. Noticing that his profile mentioned that he drinks alcohol, the lady also worried that he was an alcoholic and did not want to communicate with him. But because the gentleman's letters were so sincere and heartfelt, in the end they continued to stay in contact.

During their written correspondences, Victor sent many photos of his daughter, his daughter's boyfriend, his backyard garden and pet dog and also pictures of himself when he was younger. Even though his letters were not filled with sweet or flowery language, each one was still quite sincere and honest. He talked about his daily life, work, hobbies and interests and many other things. Little by little, Xiaomei began to feel the earnestness of his feelings, and wanted to contact him more.

After exchanging 32 letters through the ChnLove mailing system, things were starting to heat up. He made his first trip to China to see Xiaomei on August 26, and their in-person chemistry was very good. An agency translator accompanied them to assist with translation, and remarked that the gentleman was much more handsome than he had appeared in his profile photo. The lady found his smile to be very kind, when he looked at the lady his eyes were full of love and happiness. Victor showed that he deeply cared for her and always put her wants and needs ahead of his. She was deeply moved by his kind and gentlemanly behavior.

Later, she brought him to meet her family and they liked him as well. After this first meeting between them, everyone involved understood that it's impossible to truly see if a gentleman is suitable based solely on his profile and 1 or 2 letters. It's really necessary to understand him in more depth. Only when you finally meet in person can you know for sure. Otherwise, you might just miss out on your true love!

After communicating for several months, the couple had solidified their feelings for each other. The lady applied for a tourist visa in July of 2012 to visit the gentleman in the US. On July 24, 2012 the couple was officially married in his hometown.


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    1) Get well-prepared!

    Most of us are nervous about the first date. Just imagine, is there a time more apprehensive than waiting your girl to arrive in the bar? The answer should be definitely 'NO'! At this very moment, your mind is racing. You repeatedly ask yourself all these questions: "What should I say to her when she arrives?"; "Should I give her a kiss or a hug?". My personal solution is to get well-prepared. Have a greeting in mind and a first topic of conversation. Whatever topic you choose to start the talk, make sure to let it spoken out in a natural and relaxing atmosphere.

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